The Brew Vol. 3: The Power of Presence
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"There's really no end. There's really no beginning. There's really no real. There's really no pretending." Jhene Aiko's voice floats the reminder to me for the millionth time this week. I keep thinking about the end goal, the beautiful final destination where I can say "this is it. I've made it."
But I know me. I know that no matter what I achieve now, there's always more to be accomplished in the future. So I force myself back to the present.
"There's really no fail. There's really no winning."
Every time I take a moment to just be here and now (in the present), I have to wonder about my predilection for the future. I mean, presence is nice. Presence is peace. Presence is the place and space I actually move from.
So instead of trying to force a profound message in this newsletter, it feels better to me to just remember the beauty of presence. I encourage you to take a moment and find your own breath, your own beauty, your own pause, your own presence.
"Cause nothing really is and everything really isn't."
Jhene Aiko--W.A.Y.S
This song randomly pops up in my brain pretty often when I need a reminder. A reminder that everything is everything, to not take things (especially myself) so seriously, a reminder to fall into the flow, or (as of this week) to remind me of the beauty and power of presence.
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